tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1276249427610193185.post7550945216095341528..comments2023-03-24T08:40:22.477-04:00Comments on Go Ask Sadie: Maritial Problems - Do I Speak Up?Sherylhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06005663095818742053noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1276249427610193185.post-77191482732629150532009-04-25T15:53:00.000-04:002009-04-25T15:53:00.000-04:00Being the mother of a child going through a divorc...Being the mother of a child going through a divorce.....I would lovingly let my child know that I was there to support them, encourage them to get into counseling, Christian counseling, then let them direct me as to how to proceed. I know that as mothers, we want to tell the spouse everything we think they "need to know" to save their marriage....but the truth is, that all we can do is love them, love the spouse and give our prayers and support.nancygraycehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05288996419936475583noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1276249427610193185.post-80428480904796873762009-04-15T18:23:00.000-04:002009-04-15T18:23:00.000-04:00I also have been in a situation of wanting to hear...I also have been in a situation of wanting to hear someone say. "you know what your doing is wrong" but like the other commenter said, everyone pretended it was ok. <br /><br />I think she should talk to her daughter and see what role if any she wants her to play. And like always we need to constantly pray for our children.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1276249427610193185.post-8903918406826768252009-04-14T19:11:00.000-04:002009-04-14T19:11:00.000-04:00Having been in this situation myself, I know now, ...Having been in this situation myself, I know now, that anybody saying anything may have helped me. At least it would have made me do some thinking about what I was doing. But noooo, everybody kept quiet, minded their own business. Made it seem like what I was doing was ok to them, even though they talked behind my back. My own family, and they didn't seem to care enough to let me know that what I was doing was wrong. <br /><br />Sadie's right, first go to your daughter and ask her if she wants you to say something. Maybe if he knew that other people besides his wife knew about this, he would knock it off.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com